It is very easy and very difficult at the same time to get your first invitation to a Swinger’s House Party. I know it sounds confusing, but read this to the end to find out what I mean.
The easy part is that all you have to do is find and meet someone who owns a part of the house (or goes to one) and then have them invite you. Well, that’s not as easy to do as it was to write. See what I mean it may sound a bit confusing.
Let’s start by getting to know someone first.
It’s usually the outgoing couples that get the most invites, as everyone likes someone outgoing rather than a wallflower. So when you’re at a swing club, make sure you don’t sit in the corner because no one will see you. Instead, why not go sit at the bar? It’s much easier to meet people when you’re at the bar. Everyone will need a drink at some point during the night to get them by your side. Just tell them something really exciting like… “Hello”, remember that they are also there to meet people. Just by saying hello, you open the door for them to talk to you, remember that they can also be a little shy.
Next thing you know, you’ll be chatting with someone you find interesting. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to find someone compatible.
Good job, now you have a friend or two in the swinger lifestyle. Now to find a swingers house party.
Mention that you’re new (I mean, if you are, it’s no good lying), chances are, since you’re a newbie, someone will jump on you, so to speak. Actually, what I want to say is that since everyone was new at some point, we all tried to help the “rookies“So you will be called for a time.
When talking to people, be sure to mention that you’re interested in trying a house party, that you’ve never experienced one, and are curious what to expect. Never be pushy, just inquisitive. Showing interest may be the only thing that will put him over the top and invite him over.
House parties are generally a good mix of seasoned veterans and newbies. Most people who host house parties like to help newbies get started in a low-pressure environment, which is exactly what a house party is.
Remember that even though there are house parties all the time, the group of people you’re talking to may not have one right now. Be patient and everything will work out and soon you will be at the house circuit party.
Be sure to check out my other articles on swingers and what to expect at your first swinger’s house party, and how to get re-invited (you don’t want to mess anything up after working so hard to get your first invite). ).