Swing is often referred to as “the swing lifestyle” or simply “the lifestyle.” Couples who, together, agree to engage in casual sex with other people outside of their main relationships are called swingers. These encounters can include a wide range of sexual activities performed between three or more people.
Couples who enjoy swinging and frequent swinger clubs say they love their partners but crave “recreational sex.” They believe that having sex with other people is purely recreational and in no way diminishes the loving relationship they have with their spouse.
So where in that relationship are the secrets that only two can share? Doesn’t having “interchangeable” sexual partners take away personal intimacy and romance from the bedroom?
Not according to swingers. They argue that swinging allows them to explore their sexual boundaries together while strengthening their love for one another and respect for one another.
So if you and your spouse are considering going from fantasy to reality, here are the Top 10 reasons to become swingers.
- Because you both want to experience sex with other people, but you don’t want the guilt of “cheating.”
- Explore and learn new techniques that different sexual partners can offer.
- To fulfill your mutual fantasies.
- To satisfy your voyeuristic tendencies.
- To explore your bisexual curiosities.
- Have group sex in a safe and controlled environment, be it at a “house party” or a swingers club.
- To enjoy multi-partner sex with like-minded people without fear of judgment.
- To make new friends and experience an exciting “alternative lifestyle”.
- To experience those tempting feelings of “lust” long lost and rejuvenate your boring and routine sex life.
- To share a totally pleasant and uninhibited “release” from the stresses of everyday life that includes your partner.
A word of caution …
Before attempting to swing, be absolutely sure of your own desires and the strength of your emotional relationship with your partner. Make sure you are emotionally ready to share your partner with someone else or you may face unexpected feelings of jealousy!