You put your prince. He is so handsome, adorable and perfect. When the two decided to live together, the fairy tale begins to fade. Your crush is over and you start to notice the truth about Mr. Gran.
I know this self-discovery can be very sad and upsetting. You realized that he is no longer the same. What’s more, he’s abusing you! One day Mr. Great is back, another day he’s a monster. Keep exploiting and humiliating yourself in every possible way. When you want to confront him with the truth, he tells you that you are hypersensitive. That makes you even more confused and lost.
Do you know why being a doormat turns you into a slave and takes your life? Your own traumatic memories bring you negative emotions like inadequacy, inferiority, stupidity. You feel unattractive and unworthy.
Have you ever heard that it is possible to get out of this mental prison once and for all? It will do this by removing negative past memories. So you will discover your true authentic self. Natural high self confidence has returned.
What you endured remains on your mind. Bad memories mesmerized you. Your perception has been distorted and has influenced how you see yourself, others and your reality. You accepted this as true and you become this person from your “unhappy dream world.”
Whenever you want to live in a present moment and be “different”, it turns out that you cannot. You came back to live again in your living nightmare.
How does all this make you feel? I’m sure you feel small, hopeless, and enslaved. You are afraid to stop this nightmare, it depresses you more and condemns you to live your life. Destroy your self-esteem more and more.
There is a way out of this trap. It can remove painful memories from your mind. These traumatic life experiences remain within your subconscious mind. When you do this, you will reveal the truth about who you are. In other words, you will stop being a doormat. It was just a lie!
If you keep asking your heart who you are, you will find an interesting answer. The inevitable desires can appear in your mind. Those wishes are a set of positive feelings. You may want to feel safe, relaxed, empowered, and independent. You may want to be at peace and happy. So it is not a problem to become a person who can make healthy decisions in relationships with ease.
Those positive emotions are part of your true authentic self. The me, you always wanted to be, but the negative life experience blurred the truth and made you forget who you are.