If you’re reading this article, it’s probably because you’ve found it more difficult than you thought to approach Chinese girls, or because you’re looking to find out if there are any major differences in how you first date Chinese women. opposed to a western woman; You may also wonder if there are any special methods you should use when approaching Chinese girls that can help you. By the end of this article, I can promise you’ll have a new skill set that works every time!
So let’s say there’s a particular Chinese girl you already have in mind, if not, go find one (not right now, finish the article first!). Now, I’m assuming she doesn’t know you like her, but it doesn’t matter that she does, we’re going to play her back foot, so to speak.
First, I want you to find a good excuse to talk to her. This excuse could simply be asking him where to find the place you’re looking for, or some kind of question that you think he’ll know the answer to, and it could be believable that you need that answer right now. objective avoid asking him anything about Chinese culture as if he was born in the west You’ve probably had enough of hearing about Chinese culture from your parents.!
Okay, so you asked her the question and I hope she gave you some form of answer, one way or another, just thank her and say goodbye. Yes, that is correct. Just go away. Now, what you’ve done here is Firstly You didn’t actually flirt with her, you just asked her a question, in second placeEven if she thought you might be flirting with her, now you’ve refuted it by saying goodbye and walking away. I’m sure this will leave you a bit perplexed, but what we are doing is building mystery and tension, she will remember you for it. So let’s move on to the next step.
Of course, this Chinese girl or woman is one that you often see somewhere, maybe in college, maybe walking the same way to work every day, no matter where, you can be sure to see her again. sometime. The next time I see her, I want her to just say ‘hi’ and get on with her business unless I she he gives you a wide smile, in that case just comment something innocuous, don’t even ask him his name, wait for him to ask you, if he smiled at you he will soon. Otherwise, she just says ‘hello’ and keeps walking.
And now we come to the next step, the third time you see her she will really feel like she knows you to a certain extent, although it doesn’t really (this is a little psychological trick of the mind).
This is when you’re going to talk to him more, when you catch his eye, and all I want you to do is just say something like “you know I should apologize, this is the third time we’ve met and I feel like I know you, but I didn’t even tell you my name.” that’s…………”. Then she waits, she’ll tell you hers, don’t ask, let her tell you and just keep the conversation going for a minute or so before walking away again .
At this point, she will be at an “opening up” point, and you should try to find common ground to establish a relationship, creating even more depth of feeling between the two of you. After you do this, ask for her email address, not her phone number (unless she suggests it). However, don’t let the conversation last more than five minutes. When you get the email address, just say goodbye and move on to the next logical steps.
These basic steps really work well on Chinese women, I must know since I use them all the time! Try them today and you will see. Also….