The latest research has confirmed it: women have a G-spot, wow! Why is this great news? Well, this bewildering place can provide us women with crazy pleasure and here is a guide for you to find yours and exploit its magic to the fullest.
The G-spot, or Grafenberg spot, is a highly erogenous spot located inside the vagina. Properly aroused and stimulated, it can produce a very intense orgasm in women. However, many women are very frustrated because they don’t know exactly where this elusive area of theirs is located and are therefore denied maximum pleasure.
Due to the fact that the G-spot has long been mystical and elusive, the medical community has been skeptical of its existence, even though researchers have always insisted that it exists in all women.
However, thanks to today’s new research findings, the debate is over. Based on biopsies and MRIs performed by the medical community, it has now been established that the G-spot does, in fact, exist.
So why not take this guided tour to find your sweet spot and find out what you can do with it once you find this wonderful knot?
The defined G-spot
The size of the g-spot is something that has been debated a lot. The truth is that there is no exact diameter. Why? Because not all women are the same! However, there are some guidelines.
Regarding the diameter, the G-spot is said to be about ¼ inch to a few inches in size. As for the texture, it is said to feel like the rough surface of the upper part of the mouth. As for the location, it is said to be just a few centimeters from the upper wall of the genitalia, somewhere behind the clitoris (point C).
Another area where differing opinions are expressed is about the actual ‘rating’ of the spot. Is it just an accidental combination of nerve endings or is it actually a vital organ in a woman’s body?
Recent research findings now lead researchers to believe that it is actually an organ. It is said to be similar to the prostate found in men because the G-spot also appears to produce a chemical that resembles the slightly alkaline solution produced by the male prostate. Because of this latest finding, it now makes sense why women who have experienced a G-spot orgasm before feel a “wetness” that is different from the wetness they feel during C-spot arousal.
How YOU can expertly find your G-spot
First of all, know now that locating and arousing the G-spot for the first time takes a LOT of practice. As such, it’s probably best to try and find it on your own first (alone) before recruiting your lover’s deft fingers.
Start by finding a comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed for a while. Lie down and place a small pillow in your lower back to raise your hips. Think now of erotic and decadent thoughts to turn you on. You can read a raunchy magazine or watch an adult DVD, whatever it takes to start getting wet. Now start playing with your C point to really get started.
This stage is really very important because the G-spot swells when you are aroused. And of course, when it’s bigger, it’s also easier to find later.
Assuming you are now wet and warm, insert one or more fingers, palm up, inside you. Keep in mind the general location mentioned above and start to feel that rough and slightly swollen surface.
Don’t worry if you can’t find it right away. Continue giving yourself an ‘internal massage’ by stroking the upper wall of your vagina. You will know when you are close to the area because your body will help you find it. That is, when you get close to it, your body will begin to twist and bend to accommodate your fingers.
Here’s another telltale sign that you’ve found the spot: you really want to pee. This sensation is due to the G-spot being located near the bladder. However, no matter how badly you feel like urinating, ignore it. Just keep it up because the feeling will pass soon and you will be able to focus again on the wild pleasures that the G-spot brings.
Do not forget that there are more ways than one to reach orgasmic happiness. As such, try to experiment with the movements and pressures you apply to the spot until you finally arrive at that mind-blowing orgasmic cocktail.
How HE can expertly find your G-spot
The g-spot is mostly uncharted territory for most men. Fortunately, you have already found your G-spot on your own, so now you can guide him in this wonderful exploration. However, you guys may still go through a bit of trial and error, so be patient. After all, Rome was not conquered in a day.
Engage in intense foreplay, then lie on your back. Encourage him to caress your other erogenous zones first (nipples, neck, ears, navel, etc.), making sure you’re really hot and wet before he tries to explore your G-spot.
When he’s ready, ask him to place a small, soft pillow under your lower back, and then ask him to insert a finger (or more than one) inside you, palm facing up. Guide you on how to find your gspot, remember how you found yours during solo play.
Once he finds your G-spot, give him sexy tips on how to arouse and stimulate it. Here’s a tip: Have him continually tap his fingertips on his spot. It is believed that the most powerful moments are always the first times you feel yourself being touched. This finger tapping is therefore a way of tricking your G-spot into thinking that you are being touched for the first time with each touch.
Best G-Spot Orgasm Positions
Going on top of your man is considered the best position for a G-spot climax. This is because this position allows you to control how deep you want his penis to go into you, how fast or slow you want the “thrust” to be. ” and how you want to tilt your bodies for better stimulation on your G-spot. .
Another great position for G-spot arousal is the lying doggy position. In this position, you are face down on the floor or in bed. Then you open your legs so that he enters you (through the vagina) from behind. For added friction, you can bring your legs together while pushing.
Of course, the missionary position also has its advantages. However, for a perfect stimulation of the g-potentiometer, do this position in this way. Lie on your back, with your hips slightly raised with the help of a small pillow. Ask him to kneel in front of your spread legs and then have him enter you this way. At this angle, he will push up, causing his penis to hit your G-spot right away.
Have you ever heard of Combi Climax?
Why have one type of orgasm when you can have two? Really, knowing how to reach a G-spot orgasm doesn’t mean you have to choose between that and a C-spot climax. I mean, why not have both?
The G-spot and the C-spot are located in two different areas of your body and can produce different types of sensations, so imagine how wild it can be if you can come from both!
This is how you look for a blended orgasm. As stated above, engage in intense foreplay to ensure your C-spot and G-spot are slightly pumped. Tell him to penetrate you with his fingers and find the g-spot. After you do, tell him to play with your clitoris using his other fingers. Better yet, you can just bend over and perform oral sex. (Another move is for you to reach down and stroke your own clitoris while he leans down and strokes your nipples.)
You can also engage in woman-on-top or lay-down doggy style positions. And then somewhere in between all that thrusting, reaching and melting your clit. Of course, he can also do that for you with one of his hands.
Actually, now that I think about it, you can also try the traditional doggy style position (ie going on all fours). In this position, he can thrust from behind and then reach forward to play with your clit. Or you bend down and caress your C-spot while he grabs and caresses your nipples.
How to Increase the Strength of Your Orgasms Tenfold
As you and your lover progress, you’ll soon find that you’re getting better and better at working your C-spot and G-spot. Good for you! Everyone deserves to benefit from the pleasures their bodies can provide. And if you want to kick the pleasure even further, read on for a few more tips.
Try Kegel exercises. Kegel routines help tone the pubococcygeus muscles or PC muscles. When you urinate sometimes and want to stop the flow (or avoid urinating altogether), the internal muscles you contract are your PC muscles, so you already know what they are. Now, he just engages in more of these exercises on a regular basis. If he does, he will strengthen her vaginal muscles, adding more “friction” during intercourse.
Go ‘alone’ a little more often. If you’re not a big fan of masturbation, you might want to reconsider that thought. Solo play helps you experience and learn more about your body. And achieving this means that you will be better able to hint or tell your lover what you REALLY want in bed.