To get your boyfriend back make him want you back

I don’t like to play, I don’t play well and I always seem to be the loser. I don’t know why people feel the need to. I know some people seem to enjoy it, but why and how is beyond me. I don’t know why someone can’t just be honest with me, do what he says, say what he does. Especially someone who is supposed to love me. Having fallen out of favor with a fellow player, I speak from experience! If everyone was upright and honest with each other, life would be so much easier, okay yeah, and world peace would be nice too, and just as likely!

Now, having said that, I’m going to totally contradict myself, but bear with me. Even though I hate games, when you’ve separated from your partner and want to get them back, you have to do something. I don’t mean anything unpleasant or psychologically harmful. Even if, like me, you hate it, it’s a necessary evil to get your ex back.

You may have always been totally direct and honest with your partner, but this is not the time to be. You need to play your cards close to your chest and keep your feelings and intentions to yourself with both actions and words. And if you’re like me, learn to hide your feelings, anyone who knows me only has to look at my face to know exactly how I feel, I like to think of it as opening up, but in this case it’s not a good thing.

I would also be very careful who you trust, make sure it is someone you can really trust. You don’t want anything to come back with your ex. Or even worse, an unscrupulous woman who you think is your friend can have her eye on him herself and she can use it against you.

If you run into him, it’s so hard to hide your feelings when your heart is pounding and your legs have turned to jelly, and you remember why you still love him and want him back. But you have to.

You have to play the long game. you have to make me want your going back, and always being available for him is not the way to do it. If he calls, tell him you’re dating or busy. If he wants to see you doing something else. Make him believe you’re moving on. This can even mean going on dates. Nothing serious, I don’t mean cheating on anyone, just a casual night out with a guy. And if you could make sure that he communicates with your ex, that’s even better. The unattainable is very attractive.

Although seeing him when you’re socializing can be difficult, let him or his friends see you having fun. You don’t have to stay where he is, just meet your friends there or have a drink. Don’t listen to him, as if he wasn’t there. If he talks to you, answer him briefly, like he’s an acquaintance, and continue what you’re doing like that’s more important. You want him to think you’re not interested.

It will be hard to do these things at first, especially if it’s not in your nature. When all you want to do is see him or talk to him walking away or hanging up the phone is hard. But remember that this is the long game and you will reap the benefits in the end.

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