There’s the “sex,” and then there’s the “SEX!” We’ve all had simple missionary-style sex that gets boring over the years. If you’re just having standard, boring sex, then you’re really missing out on the true orgasmic pleasures of real mind-blowing sex.
If you want to experience incredible orgasms, you just need to follow these 3 sexual skills:
1. Lasting sex. This needs to be mentioned first because it’s a HUGE reason why women and men don’t orgasm at all or have very lousy and weak orgasms.
Obviously, this falls more often on the man. The man needs to learn to last a long time during sexual intercourse and not experience the common problem of premature ejaculation. This is a sexual skill that you simply have to learn if you want to give your partner incredible orgasms. And if you suffer from premature ejaculation, then your own orgasm is WEAK. Rapid ejaculation orgasms just aren’t as strong as the ones that take longer to achieve.
In order to last long during sex, you need to learn some physical exercises and some mental breathing techniques to calm your mind and not over-excite it (which is notorious for leading to rapid ejaculations). Practice squeezing the little muscle between your anus and testicles that you can feel when you urinate and it comes up mid-stream. Flexing it will make it stronger and allow you to last. It takes a few weeks to get used to, but it’s definitely worth it for both you and your partner.
Now if you’re a woman, your job is to encourage your guy to learn how to last. Give him the exercises and help him practice them so you can have the long-lasting sex that you and he deserve.
2. Mastery of oral sex. This is the second best sexual skill to master because oral sex is incredibly pleasurable! Let’s be honest, oral sex feels amazing.. It is often much more amazing than regular sex. For this reason alone, you need to master this skill in a big way.
If you are a woman, you can easily learn some amazing techniques to give men ridiculous and mind blowing orgasms. The kind where they look down in utter disbelief at the pleasure you’re giving them.
If you’re a guy, it gets a little more complicated. Honestly, most guys don’t have a clue about “going there.” There are definitely certain techniques and rhythms to learn and top tips that work wonders for amazing orgasms. These are the type of orgasms that the woman remembers for years to come. You can part with a woman and then see her a few years later, and that initial look she’ll give you will automatically convey memories and images of those incredible nights of oral pleasure you gave her. That’s how powerful good oral sex can be.
Some oral tips to start with are to take it easy at first. Do not rush downstairs and drool. Go slow and gradually increase your pace by developing a steady rhythm. Listen to her! If he’s responding well, continue with what you’re doing. If there’s obvious room for improvement, let him guide you a bit to where he feels best. Over time you will want to learn the skills of oral sex where you won’t need guidance, but will provide ways to please her that she didn’t even know about.
3. Hot sexual positions. We talked about the missionary being lame. That’s because there are many other positions to choose from and experience that are much “hotter” and more erotic than your typical missionary.
The key to amazing sex is variety. And the variety will come in the form of changing your sexual positions. As an example, a small sampling of your standard rotation of sexual positions might be as follows: have her on top, come from behind, insert from the side, straddle in the sitting position. There are many variations on sex and they are all incredibly pleasurable. The key is to mix it up. Learn as many as possible and rotate them.
Don’t just learn standard sex positions, learn oral sex positions like 69, where you both perform oral sex on each other at the same time.